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5 Ways to Improve Intimacy in Your Relationship

Loosing that spark and longing in your relationship? Check out these simple tips to improve intimacy in your relationship.

5 Ways to Improve Intimacy in Your Relationship

In this fast-paced life, the number of people with a “Committed” tag is increasing; however, the bond and emotional connection relationships require is missing. Rather than showing our happiness to the world, we should focus more on enjoying our lives together. Relationships demand continuous attention and nourishment. The moment you’ll stop doing it, the relations and the charm they hold may begin to fade away. For couples, it is very important to keep the intimacy in a relationship intact. Both, emotional and physical intimacy is equally important to keep the spark alive among the couples. The attraction that one feels at day 1 must be maintained by the partners to have that forever kind of love. Now, this attraction not only comprises of physical appearance but also involves the emotional connect.

Those dates, late night calls, desire to meet and see your partner, touch them, be with them, listen to their stories, just sit silently & yet being at peace are some of the things, which people do when the love or relationships are new. But with a few years down the line or maybe after getting married, they start losing the intimacy in their relationships. I guess ‘LIFE’ happens to them and they offer love to ‘LIFE’ in return for a peaceful everyday routine. The love which was supposed to grow with each passing day – as the promise every lover makes – suddenly goes out of the window. In fact, after a certain period of time, we do realize that the intimacy in the relationship is going for a toss but what we don’t know is “how to improve intimacy in our relationship?”

We are so involved in our daily routine that we tend to forget the art of being in love. We forget to understand the kind of efforts our relationship is demanding and how to mend and fill the gaps between us. Not able to figure out how to make our partner understand that we still love them. We feel that the intimacy in our relationship is lost and we want to work on connecting the wires again. We want to let the sparks flow but have no clue how to go about it, right? Hold your breath because, in this blog post, I have listed out 5 ways to improve intimacy in your relationships. So, here we go!

5 Ways to Improve Intimacy in Your Relationship

Before going further, you must know that just reading these points won’t make any difference but implementing them may change your world. If you really aim to put a smile on your partner’s face today and see those love hearts again in their eyes then just follow the lead!

Gift Them Your Time

Money cannot buy happiness and time but the best gift one can give is surely time. From today, promise yourself to make time for your lover, start from an hour on daily basis and start making changes in your life. Earning money and climbing the ladder of success will make a lot of meaning when you will have your partner holding your hand at every step. What are the success and heavy bank account all about when you don’t have anyone to share those happy moments with?

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Despite the busy life, put in efforts to improve the intimacy in your relationship. Just dropping a mushy text out of surprise when you are at work to let your partner know that though you are busy at work, you still think about them. Write and hide love notes if you are leaving early for work or otherwise too. Finding a note when not expected is surely bound to bring a smile on their face. Plan surprise dates, grab and kiss them when they are not even expecting, plan short weekend getaways if not a good vacation. Just think of all the things you used to do when you were trying to woo them and do such things now. These are some of the ways to improve intimacy in your relationship. The intimacy or love is lost because we stop doing what we were doing when he/she was not ours, – when we were struggling to call them ours. So, get up and correct your mistakes.

Rebuild Trust

Intimacy sometimes gets lost when your partner losses trust in you. The feeling of belonging starts to die. Trust issues hamper the emotional intimacy in a relationship and which with time spoils the hanky-panky fun too. Couples who really want to improve intimacy in their relationship must try winning the trust again. Start communicating, be vocal about how you feel about each other, be around and make your partner believe the same that you are available whenever they need you, talk about your partners to family or friends when your respective partner is around and they hear you realize and understand how grateful you are to have them, how they add colours to your life, how meaningless your life is without them. All these little-little acts may help the couples reinstate trust in each other and improve the intimacy in their relationship.

Talk About Your Issues

Running away from the problems or issues can never end them but surely prolong them till you stop and decide to face them. When the couples start keeping things to themselves and choose not to discuss or talk about them to their partners, the intimacy and the bonding starts to decline. It is very important for couples to understand the role and value of communication. It is very natural to have issues as every person is different but what keeps the relations going is when the couples talk about their differences, their views, the way they think and feel about things and start respecting and accepting the differences. To improve intimacy in the relationship, the couples should speak their heart out and be very transparent to each other.

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Improve Sex Life

Both, physical and emotional intimacy can improve when couples will start spending more and exciting time in bed. Work and life imbalance happens and many times the couples are not really able to realize it. This imbalance affects the sex life too. To strengthen your relationship and improve intimacy, couples should try to purposefully spend quality time in bed, keeping their mobiles or kids away. The active the sex life will be, the more the intimacy and the fondness will be among the couples. Talk about lovemaking, ask each other how they feel when they are in bed, what are their turn on’s and turn off’s, what excites them the most in bed, how does the touch feel like, give each other points on being a good kisser, perform role-play, talk about each other’s fantasies and many other things to spice up your bed activities.

Give Your Partner Space and Try Staying in Love

Yes, it takes efforts to feel and stay in love. Surely, love is a feeling but to develop these feelings, it takes efforts. The partners should just be themselves and try to be very genuine and transparent with each other. They shouldn’t wear any mask as that won’t last long and will kill the feelings and the relationships. The love gurus and the experts have always been of the view and have given this as the most important tip for improving intimacy in a relationship is to be what you are and present the same to your partner and give them the chance to accept you that way. The couples should not try to change each other morally or try to mould their partners as per their liking or preference. Instead, they should let each other breathe and have complete freedom to do things, give your partner space. Staying in a relationship is like sunshine all the time but to keep the sun shining, the couples should respect each other’s privacy and space.

Falling in love can be easy but staying in it can be gruelling. Love demands continuous efforts, so keep nourishing your relationships like a baby!

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Written by Gerry Kolar

Gerry Kolar writes about sexual health and relationships for Foxamour. She has 8 years of experience in writing. She is also involved in counselling people with sexual health issues and chronical depression.

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